| Location | La |
| Age | 13 years |
| Cause of Death | Suicide |
| Date of Birth | 28/11/1995 |
| Date of Death | 26/10/2009 |
| Visitors | 2,208 since 16/11/2009 |
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The good die young . RIP Renia .
Renia was always harrassed at school and was called names. Alot of her former guy friends would start making up rumors about her and talk behind her back . They would always say that she was a "ho" and that no one would ever love her . Renia's true friends stuck by her side however ... but that simply wasnt enough for Renia. No matter how much her friends cared for her , she felt like she didnt belong . Why would those guys hurt her , and treat her like they do ? What has she ever done to deserve this from them ?
Those boys would continue harrassing her on AIM and Myspace , and they even convinced Renia's current boyfriend to break up with her . Supposedly , since Renia was known as a "ho" she was "bringing her boyfriends name down". What a cruel and childish thing to think ....
Renia called her best friend Nareh after her break up and told her that she would be better off with a new best friend. As I have heard , Renia told Nareh that she "wished there was an escape". But Nareh was there for Renia and told her that she would never leave her side (along with a couple other girls).
The next day , Renia told Nareh that she loved her like a sister and would never want to hurt her . She ditched school , snuck into Nareh's empty house , and hung herself in the bathroom. Renia texted her friends goodbye a few minutes before she took her life , and Nareh told the staff about how she thought Renia was going to commit suicide hoping that she could be saved.
Unfortunately , Renia's mind was all made up. She was sick of the bullying she had to endure dailey and she just didnt see the light at the end of the tunnel. Renia thought of suicide as the only way to escape the taunts those boys threw at her .
People who complete suicide have no idea the pain and agony of those left behind; it only transfers the pain from themselves to their loved ones left behind. In retrospect there must have been other forces at work that led Renia to this decision, but we feel the bullying had a major impact on how she thought and communicated her feelings.
I personally did not know Renia . But her story has shocked me . She was such a beautiful girl and it saddens me to hear about her suicide. How can you torture someone like that ? Its unjust, and cruel . No one deserves to be bullied so much , the pain is unbearable . God bless Renia , her family , and her true friends. You will be missed.
When i first heard about Renia , I couldnt function for a few days. All I kept on seeing was her smile... so bright, and happy . I heard her laugh a couple times and I'll admit - it made my day. Bullycide is growing , and it has to be stopped. Whats even worse is that Renia's bullies dont even care that shes gone . They show no remorse at all . I just pray to God that her bullies dont drive another soul into suicide.
I was a teenager once , and I know how Renia felt . She was always called names like "ho" and "slut". Well I got news for people who did think she was a ho - SHES A TEENAGE GIRL ! Having a few boyfriends in high school is normal . And having a ton of guys who you once liked call you a ho is not fun . Trust is a big issue and if you break your promise with a girl , you're pretty much breaking her heart . (This parapgraph is deticated to a young boy who once made a promise to Renia .... you know who you are .)
I cant stress how big of a mistake Renia made . I didnt really know her but I am positive that losing a child is the worst pain a human can encounter on Earth . Renia's bullying would eventually end and she would grow up and be a successfull , beautiful woman . But its amazing how great of a power hurtful words have over somebody.
Honestly , Renia's suicide has alot to be learned from .... and hopefully her bullies learn their lesson and get what they deserve.
You were an amazing soul , and i guess God just needed another angel . Hope you are okay in heaven beautiful .
IN LOVING MEMORY OF RENIA YOOKHAN
11-28-95 - 10-26-09
she was the got-it-all
your dream girl
so pretty and tall
she was the girl you'd hate for no reason
the one you'd talk trash about
at any day
of any given season
she walked the hallways with so much power and pride
no one even knew her
we just assumed we did and lied
her name was always in someones mouth
it pushed her off the edge
she was headed down south
walked the hallways with so much power and pride
not once did we think
we caused her suicide.
now we all know
all she needed was a hero.
"Remember Me" (song by Deanna Edwards)
Remember me whenever you see a sunrise,
Remember me whenever you see a star,
Remember me whenever you see a rainbow
Or woods in autumn colors from afar.
Remember me whenever you see the roses
Or seagulls sailing high in a sky of blue.
Remember me whenever you see waves
Shining in the sun.
And remember, I'll be remembering you!
Remember me whenever you see a teardrop,
Or meadows still wet with the morning dew.
Remember me whenever you feel love
Growing in your heart.
And remember, I'll be remembering you!
...ƒяιєη∂ѕнιρ ƒℓσωєя
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All my love Sylvie
***Shame on those Bullies***
Renia Baby,
I am so sorry honey that the bullies, bullied you to death. My heart aches and breaks for your family sweet girl. I didn't know you but I would have loved to. I know you know now, how very much you were and still are loved by so many. You are missed everyday of life to those who knew you for you and loved you as they sweet girl you were. I am so sorry baby girl that you thought this was the only way to end your pain and sorrow. Sadley so many people have felt this way...my son was one of those people also.
Nicholas James Devine died by suicide on Oct, 23rd 2008. He fell into a dark dark abyss, deeply depressed after finding his 5 month old precious baby girl dead on the morning of June 29th 2008. She died in her sleep from S.I.D.S. It prooved to be too mush pain for my precious Nick Nick, and he ended his life not even 4 months later. That was the worst day of my life, the day much of myself died. Since then a little more of me has died little by little, and I lost myself, and all direction and ambition in life for 2 years. It wasn't until recently that I began to find my way back ti life once again, and not just surviving. I refuse to allow society and the ignorant and uncompassionate world define my son by the way he died instead of by the way he lived for 25 beautiful, blessed and amazing years. And I will not allow Nick's death to define me. His death of course will always be a part of my life, and he will always be with me in my heart.
I have been a Christian most of my life and I am 46, and when my Grand Baby and Son passed on into heaven, I must say that my faith was put to the test like never before. I was angry with and at God, although I didn't blame him, He didn't do it, but I felt that He could have stopped it from happening, afterall He is God, right?!!! But then the Lord showed me that Nick would have never been happy here again as long as he lived after the agony he endured of finding his baby girl lifeless, and out of His Mercy and His Grace He brought my sweet son home to complete bliss and joy forever to be with with his precious baby girl.
I am relying on God to continue to see me through this. I must, I have (2) beautiful teens. I love them with all of whats left of my heart. God help me, because there isn't a minute that goes by in a day that I don't think of my Nick Nick. But now instead of sad thoughts, sad tears, and sad feelings, they are turned to joyous, loving memories of my son, and I am Grateful and blessed to have known and loved such a beautiful human being such as Nick in my life. Thank you baby for being mine. He is still my son, not even death can change that. because love NEVER dies. Nick and Renia arent dead anyway, their bodies are dead and gone but trust me, their spirits are alive and soaring high above for all eternity with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
To the Bullies of the world.
May you never know the pain and suffering of that of Rania, Nicholas and thousands of others that "think" the only way to end thier pain is by ending their lives!!!! May God get ahold of all of your hearts of stone, and give you compassion. Jesus is Good.
My love, heart and prayers are with your family. Peace and good will to you all, and may you find your strength, comfort and peace of mind in HIM.
He cares, He loves you, seek Him with all your heart and all your mind and all your sould, and He will be found. My son and Renia are not lost it is quite the contrary, they are found.
Blessings ~Tina~
Sadness has come.
It has spread darkness over happiness we once knew.
So now we will hold our hart in two.
However life will bloom again.
We will not give up we will smile
Flowers will come
Blue skys appear
Life will be beautifull
Even though you are not here
For when we meet you
Whenever and wherever that may be
We can say we have lived
and i know you will smile and say
I am proud of thee.
RIP Beautiful one
I know what Renia was going through. My son has been bullied in most of the schools he has been too. His confidence was knocked for six, and the only way he could get this out of his system was to be naughty at home, be nasty to his loved ones. He got beat up many of times by boys who had gangs behind them. I, his mother would not stand for this, but he would only speak to his nanna about what was happening. He has got through all this now and with him families help and his teachers at school he has built up his confidence again. He has also helped children at school who have been bullied, doing talks at different schools on how to deal with the situation.
I only wish that Renia could of talked to someone about all this. She was such a beautiful girl, I think those boys was jealous of her. And I hope one day she gets justice. I cannot believe these boys show remorse. But as the saying goes "you reap as you sow", they will get paid back one day.
God bless you Renia, your safe in gods hands now and nobody can hurt you again. Keep an eye on your family and your true friends who loved you so much. Kim xxxx
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